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God Save Us From Ourselves

I was listening to a renowned scholar talking about the aim of marriage, and couldn’t stop myself from trying to find out if everyone or majority of folks share his same views on the purpose of marriage, so:

Do you think that the most important aims of marriage are just ‘Companionship and breeding’?!

If your answer is yes, I think you are depriving and denying yourself from experiencing one of the most beautiful and noble emotions that has ever existed ‘Love’, and you are not doing yourself justice because you have a right to seek love, be loved and give love to your loved one.

I always loved that part of the ‘Christian/Western’ wedding vows when couples say to one another ‘To Love and Cherish!’

Just as my love to God makes me bear whatever tests he puts me through and maintain my faith, loving your other half enables you to stand solid throughout your relationship with them and face everything with them happily and firmly be it (Illness, poverty, challenge, hardship and obstacle.)

A book, cat, dog, gardening, your friends, TV, work or even yourself if you enjoy solitude can provide you with company, it is not a very wise step to marry someone because you are looking for company!

We are not machines or robots to let go of our emotions; the great ones like love, and just to your knowledge they are making now robots that can express emotions and give back love to their owner!

In Islam when describing the relationship between spouses the lord says ‘و جعلنا بينكم مودة و رحمة, meaning (and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts)), I think all religions place so much great emphasis upon love.

I have heard a number of folks especially accomplished men who place a great emphasis when talking about marriage on the ‘Companionship and breeding’ side, and from my perspective I regard this as unfair for those in favour of such notions and their partners.

Lack of love will make us commit many inhumane and uncivilized actions against our partners; can you imagine what unloving spouse can do to their partner if the relationship fails?!

Some who lack the courage and love to inform their partner face to face that the relationship isn’t working anymore can choose to send that via a TWEET!

Let us mend our relationships and perspectives and choose love over anything else every time!

Finally, I don’t know where we are heading to when we subtract love from the equation of life and marriage, may God save us from ourselves!

Remembering What You Read

Here are some simple steps to remember what you read:

 

1-Pay attention

2-Avoid distractions

3-Focus

4-Look at your life style

 

Other techniques include:

 

1-Use new information

Explain it to someone, discuss it, write it, construct arguments for & against it, think about it, & apply it.

 

2-Have purpose:

Always know why you are reading something & when are you going to use it.

 

3-Use the five step reading system:

This system allows you to select what you need to read, therefore avoiding any unnecessary & distracting material that hinders concentration & recall.

Will take some ‘time off’ away from ‘Social Media’!

Dear friends,

Pray that all of you’re doing well, amen.

WordPress has given me a platform where I can share my writing with my loved ones, hone this craft, & to also give a glimpse of the life & the horrors that the author of those  words & creative work have been through, & I swear many times I didn’t like myself for sharing those horrors & pains with others, but certain days this seems like the only option that is out there.

 

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading both my creative work, & also about my pain/misfortune, it’s highly appreciated.

 

Sadly my life ain’t perfect & lovely at the moment,  hadn’t been for quite a long time, & just some days ago was MY BIRTHDAY during the holy month of RAMADAN, lots of things happened, & each time & during every incident one thing kept coming: ‘IS THIS THE LIFE OF MY DREAMS?’

 

I THINK MOST OF US WERE HANDED DOWN DREAMS THAT AREN’T OURS, & then comes the villains who manipulate us into walking down paths that are not meant for us, villains who bully us, commit atrocities against us, who want to see us SHRINK, BE CRIPPLED, villains who’d rather SEE US DEAD to the point that they have no shame saying into your face ‘BEING DEAD FOR YOU IS BETTER THAN BEING ALIVE!’

From time to time we need to make an assessment to see if we’re walking down the paths that will take us TO OUR DREAMS! This is very tough & your enemies will place tons of obstacles in your path & execute evil plots to distract you, but you’ve to CARRY ON!

 

So long my amigos, & you all mean the world to me.

 

“You are growing into consciousness, and my wish for you is that you feel no need to constrict yourself to make other people comfortable.” 
 

Ta-Nehisi Coates, Between the World and Me

 

 

 

 

 

 

Which life & soul would you save?!

Dennis Prager says 2/3 of American’s when asked this question their answer is quite horrifying!

The question is as following:

If your dog and a person you don’t know are drowning whom would you save?!

2/3 of Americans say they would save their dog, because the person is unknown to them!

If this is the criteria people use or apply when helping and assisting others, indeed then a dark future is awaiting HUMANITY!

Maybe it’s not just an American answer but it’s a universal one, & everyone will go for saving the dog!

Why can’t we just save everything that needs saving without picking & preferring one soul & life over the other?!

WHY SHOULD MY OWN SURVIVAL AS A HUMAN BE AT THE EXPENSE OF ANOTHER SOUL’S LOSS & TRAGEDY?!

 

Why can’t all lives be saved?!

Alpha Brainwave: Secret To Success

They say that only 3%  of us realize their dreams, same goes for our ‘BRAINS’;  only very few of us know how to fully use it and to fully tap into its hidden unlimited potential.

It’s a shame that we read manuals on how to assembly furniture, use this and that equipment and device, but don’t take time to read, study, understand and learn how to use and deal with this magnificent gift from the lord ‘Our Brains’.

 

The ‘BRAIN’ has five waves each assigned to a different role:

Beta

Alpha

Theta

Delta

Gamma

Each is a doorway to endless possibilities and provide us with unlimited powers.

Some of those who have studied the brain argue that humans have been using their brains in the wrong way all along. Meaning that they have let the parts or brainwaves that shouldn’t have been in control be in the driving seat and take charge and control of everything. I say maybe that’s why we have so much tragedies in this world.

In all the five brainwaves ‘ALPHA’ is the most powerful, and its the one that makes it possible for humans to absorb so much information, learn fast, excel in anything and succeed.

When you are on ‘Alpha’ brain wave your body is relaxed and that makes all the difference, the amazing thing is that the frequency of ‘Alpha’ isn’t that much high and is slower allowing you to excel with excellence in anything.

The ‘Alpha’ brain wave is more concerned with the right side of our brains that deals with imagination, intuition, and creativity.

If you want to succeed, make sure that you’re on ‘Alpha’ brainwave most times.

The War On Your Brain

Georgi Lozanov ‘the father of accelerated learning’ has found the following:

‘By being in relaxed state we can absorb more information and therefore excel in learning.’

Many times kids and people in dysfunctional families perform way below their peers who come from stable and loving families. Now imagine also that those you work with becoming another added problem to the ones you’re already having, add also the society too?! God help those facing such misfortune, difficulties and hardships!

If you are more intelligent than those around,  you may find yourself facing the greatest war of all wars; the ones who hate you and want to imprison and captivate you will find means to sabotage and destroy your brain performance, so that you won’t be giving all of your abilities and the best performance that you’re capable of , SUCCEEDING & BECOMING YOUR GREATEST VERSION OF YOURSELF IS THEIR BIGGEST NIGHTMARE & WHAT THEY FEAR THE MOST.

This evil war can be in any location that requires you to be dedicating your utmost mental abilities to perform in excellence , and it’s carried via various different evil means; (brain injuries, unemployment, poverty, various injuries, abuse, fights/quarrels, problems, nonsense arguments, insults, trauma, harassment, distractions, drugs, giving you an evil/abusive/harmful/stinky/mean/difficult time at class, home, office, etc.),  their goal is to take away all the peace of mind and mental strength/ability that you need in performing any meaningful task that you’re undertaking.

Know your enemy’s evil methods and what they want and protect yourself.

 

 

To somebody I know: ‘Now you know why the stinky scholarship you received was such a pain in the ass, and why everyone was mean and aggressive to you!’

Experts, The Nero’s of Yesterday & Today

Nero is the Emperor whom is accused of being behind the burn of Rome. The world that we live in today is from the invention and making of experts who are/were the masterminds of every policy that is/was taken by a head of state and top official here and there, and boy,  what did we inherit?!

There isn’t one citizen in this world whom isn’t walking within their own country and not shedding tears and crying over the GLORIOUS OLD DAYS OF THEIR COUNTRY!

Who is responsible for SUCH RUIN?!

BLAME IT ON THOSE WHO DESCRIBE THEMSELVES AS EXPERTS!

They play with all officials like one plays with a ‘Yo- yo’ , they toss and throw them in all directions, sending them to fight on all fronts till they are worn out, broke and destroyed. It’s like a person who went on a vengeance crusade, and what do they tell such man before he’s out DIG TWO GRAVES, ONE FOR YOU,  AND ANOTHER FOR YOUR ENEMY.’, but experts hide the downside/negative elements of any advice they give to officials, they only exaggerate the benefits and gains.

Worst thing about them is that they don’t even amount to that penny you were saving to aid you in the rainy day, when things go very bad/blue, they will just clean their hands of all the horrors and catastrophes that they have lead you into, and when it’s a time where remorse isn’t of any use, you will discover that you were following the advice of ‘NERO’ all along,  and that with your own hands you have assassinated/killed/destroyed ‘THE APPLE OF YOUR EYES/WORK OF YOUR LIFE!’ 

 

Just look at the UN, did it fulfill the purpose it was created for?!
Let’s stop listening to experts, let’s truly connect to the goodness in us, to the humane side in us, let’s live by the rule:DO ONLY GOOD, & DO NO EVIL, if we only do this the world will change for the better.

Experts gave us all those ‘WARS, POVERTY, MISUNDERSTANDINGS/HOSTILITY BETWEEN NATIONS, FINANCIAL CRISES, UNPRECEDENTED LEVELS OF UNEMPLOYMENT/INEQUALITY/INJUSTICE, FAMINES, ILLNESS, & MUCH MORE VERSIONS OF DESTRUCTION’, let’s MEND WHAT’S LEFT OF THIS DESTROYED/BROKEN WORLD.