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A NOTE FROM HUMAN/SEX TRAFFICKERS

We are mega rich & well fed men

To the point we developed huge bellies & butts like females

When moving around we watch our shade in admiration

We are so mesmerized by it

We shake our butts in fascination & transformation

We don’t care how many assaulted you

What was done to you by many men

Your trauma, pain, hurt, harm or abuse

We think you are still functioning

Few of us can make use of what you got.

We don’t want strong/solid commitment

Something temporary will do

Why do you think we made you poor?

Why do you think we kept you single till your thirties?

& if it happens that there will be a child by error from fucking you

We’ll help you get rid of it

& if we fail to do so;

No worries there’s SHORTAGE in the market & we can make use of another VAGINA OR ANUS.

We are always looking for our next victim & prey

Eating the Other: Desire & Resistance-Bell Hooks

 

To make one’s self vulnerable to the seduction of difference, to seek an encounter
with the Other, does not require that one relinquish forever one’s mainstream
positionality. When race and ethnicity become commodified as resources for pleasure,
the culture of specific groups, as well as the bodies of individuals, can be seen as
constituting an alternative playground where members of dominating races, genders,
sexual practices affirm their power-over in intimate relations with the Other.

Saving Sara

I never received any support from women, & if they ever do pretend to be helping me; that’s only TO SHOW THE WORLD THAT AM DUMB.

& then we have the woman who I live with & her people who practice domestic violence against me & all sorts of evil/ill/harm/abuse/criminality against me, that’s women’s role in my life(Ugly, criminal, abusive, evil & corrupt) & men aren’t any better too!

BUT LET ME SHARE WITH YOU A HEROIC ACT DONE BY ME TO SAVE ONE GIRL FROM SEX/HUMAN TRAFFICKING.

In 2007, a girl by the name Sara was caught in ugly & criminal relationship with a guy called Haitham, he lured her by faking his deep affection for her, then as time passed his real ugly criminal face & intentions began to appear.  From her side the girl thought that once things becomes steamy between them, he will then make her his wife! But Haitham was an expert on using women & then disposing them like used plastic cups!

Sara came to me asking for help to push him to propose for her after the relationship they were having became so messy. After talking to him he said that HE WILL NEVER PROPOSE FOR A GIRL WHO WAS SO LOOSE & ALLOWED HIM TO HAVE HIS WAY WITH HER.

She had another female friend (Her best friend), whom I asked to get involved, she said she can never allow herself getting involved in such unethical things! She said she got brothers who will get mad at her, & Sara should get herself out of this mess just the same way she has got herself into it,  for she never consulted or discussed such relationship with anyone!

 

Even when I informed Sara of the mental images he had of her, the insults & everything she was so in love with him that she didn’t care at all & kept seeing him! Things turned sour, one bad incident after another, & something ugly happened, I asked him then either to marry her or leave her, & his answer was the same HE CAN NEVER TRUST A LOOSE GIRL LIKE HER TO BE CARRYING HIS NAME!

 

I then took her to a gynecologist,  I paid for everything, the doctor assured us she’s still a virgin, & advised her to stop having the horrible affair she’s having & to be a straight & ethical person.  I also informed her that the lord saved her, & she’d be thankful & obedient to him. I talked to this criminal’s mother asking her either to make her son marry Sara or to make sure he stops contacting her, the mother who was a very strange woman said ‘It’s Sara who is loose & comes every time to see her son.’, she said she can never make a woman like her become her son’s wife because she is not honorable & will be doing such things with other men once she becomes married to her son. To make a long story short, she made her son stop contacting Sara, & I went to his working place & threatened that I will inform his bosses of his corrupt unethical behavior, he then said he doesn’t want anything to do with Sara, & he’s being stalked by her & he really wants to put an end to their relationship (He feared his source of income will be threatened me coming to his work place!)

 

Haitham was a playboy, who worked for a big European IT company, he was also a divorcee with a son, his former wife was from the Gulf region in the Middle-East, they’re married maybe for a year & half! Beside his job, he had another profession as he told Sara; he used to marry girls who came to have short vacations in his country during the summer(Summer Flings)!  He had a woman who owned a big & famous gym who helped him meet all his victims!

 

That was the kind of man a very young girl had found herself entangled with. I did my very best to make sure that if he has no intention of marrying her then to stay away from her. & in my opinion I think his aim was to make a video of her & to blackmail her with that video so she becomes his SEX SLAVE for the rest of her life.

 

Sara was saved by me from that corrupt unethical womanizer, & I never had any regrets for what I have done for her.

 

 

 

Help Victims of Domestic Violence

Where was I those past days my WordPress family?

From the pain inside my head, heart & soul, it’s difficult to write well, & am making all sorts of typo!

Please don’t leave us ‘VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ALONE‘, help us , share our stories, & try to help us fix this & put an end to all kinds of violence.

Finding a way to escape the dreadful horrendous net I live in. Imagine the woman who is practicing domestic violence against me,  I took hits that were targeted at her,  helped her & her kids after escaping an abusive father’Her Husband’ my dad,  & helped them in trying to build a safer life away from violence. Today that criminal woman,  & her kids are practicing against me the same violence we all escaped!

A few days ago as usual I’s attacked by them, & she ordered her kids to bring some guys to finally ‘LOCK ME UP’ at the ‘MAD HOUSE’ , because I’m have prevented them for so long from practicing their MERRY LIFE!

I’s a victim of CHILD ABUSE , & NOW I’M A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, & many other forms of violence, abuse, & harm from many people.

With the help of her kids, they assault & abuse me (The mother & her kids), threaten me every time because I’m without a job, friends, or any form of any kind of support that they’ll kick me out of the house,  & most times threaten they’ll place me in a ‘Mental Asylum’.

Those past days I’s trying to find means to make my life safe, & asking help from the people who unleashed such dangerous creatures, who allow them to carry out their crimes against me, who also harass, attack, abuse, harm & insult me in public.

AM SEEKING THE HELP OF THE WORST CREATURES AMONG MANKIND TO SAVE ME FROM THE WORST CREATURES AMONG MANKIND!

CAN YOU SEE WHAT AM DEALING WITH?!

Believe me, perpetrators NEVER CHANGE.

Women & The Boys They Raise

Why when a girl does something odd by the standards set by a patriarchal society, one filled with hatred and prejudice for/towards women and girls, they blame all the ancestral women of that girl/woman on her deeds?!

The deed can be very trivial , but made into a gigantic stuff by the society we have mentioned above, and because the person being accused is simply a woman/girl?

Ever heard Beyonce song ‘If I Were A boy?’,  in one of the lines she says ( And I’d never get confronted for it),  it’s true men do all horrors and we clap our hands for them, and then let them get away with everything!

Why when a woman/girl tells a man about her feelings or that he is handsome she is labelled as ‘Loose’?

Why that same man/boy who labelled that girl as ‘Loose/Nut’ case for expressing her feelings is labelled as ‘Manly/Courageous’ for being able to express himself/feeling or doing whatever he wants?!

I’ve seen many boys/men yelling ‘Am a man/boy’ I can do what I want, where is that written? In the ‘Holy Book or Constitution’?

Oh, speaking about the constitutions/laws, did you know that in some Muslim countries men can walk away with sentences for adultery and women can simply be falsely accused, and the sole witness can be only the husband, she can be be framed because her husband feels so, or because she caught him doing a nasty thing and hence he turned the table against her! So sometimes even the constitution/law can be against women/girls!

Why does a society has double standards, one for girls/women; which in most cases is cruel /unjust , and then kinda of soft/merciful one for men/boys?!

And how did those women who have seen so much injustice, hatred, prejudice, other ill from their societies end raising the men/boys we see everywhere committing many horrors?!

And how did the boy who have seen what his Mama had went through, do all such ill towards other women/girls?! A mama who was/is denied from all her rights, humanity and whom had been subjected to many ill and wrong!

How didn’t he end fighting for women/girls rights, and ended joining the rest of the society in committing human rights violations towards women and girls?!

Women pay attention for the boys/men you’re raising, for they can become the men whom later on many women will be suffering from, same also goes for the world.

No One Can Silence You Unless You Allow Them

(Submitted Also Somewhere)

Am Samia Hassan, I’ll call myself ‘A Global Citizen’ who for the time being lives in a place called ‘Somaliland’ (Where am bullied, harassed, abused, and harmed every single day. I haven’t went out now for months because of the bullying and abuse that happens to me. I’ve forgotten how the street looks like, miss even the fresh air and walking, but I’m afraid that they will do all the bad things the people do to me whenever I’m in public.’)

Perhaps when all the abuse, harm, & harassment stops I can then claim to be a survivor of ‘Sexual Harassment’. As a result from the sexual harassment, bullying, harm and from the different kinds of abuses I became disabled , with many various dangerous injuries through a tragic accident that happened to me in 2009 in Egypt, Cairo.  (All this was because of men who worked for big ‘Multinational Firms’ who all now are leading great lives, others were ordinary guys who too are living merry lives, just like Bill Clinton is leading a merry life when he harassed and assaulted many women (& there’re so many other creatures like him too in every country (Dominique Strauss-Kahn, Silvio Berlusconi and many others.)

I thought all the tragedies that I went through when I came to this place called Somaliland will end, but unfortunately that didn’t stop or end, I went again through so many new kinds of harassment and abuses.

When I stood up for myself and reported some of the people who were harming me, a close friend to the men who were doing the harm who has been leading the investigation along with other people stated that none of my claims seem to be accurate (This just didn’t occur once, me trying to end harassment & abuse,  & then everyone taking the side of the perpetrator, it happened many times). As a result of that injustice, harm, abuse and harassment, I’m now unemployed for almost three years.

The sad part is that within a society like mine where I live, due to clan ties, patriarchy , traditions and that all the society is kind of relatives one way or another, and because am a woman not having as much power, ties, links, and wealth as the men who assaulted me, I became the ‘DISPOSABLE LIFE’, am the disabled harassed poor woman with no status that can be simply rid off for good. I have been through many different forms of abuse, harm, harassment, and injustice of all kinds since a very young age and I pray that the Lord does aid me and serve justice, amen.

I live with people who say they’re my family, but they beat, bully, harass, & abuse me. I’m the eldest one in the family, helped raise the kids with a woman who calls herself my mother but she’s anything other than a mother, worked outside the home to help them financially, when my father would want to beat her I intervened , & I’s the one who was beaten, I took all the hits instead of her, she & they had forgotten all this and every time they beat, bully, harass, abuse me & threaten that they will kick me out of the house as am unemployed.

The boys I carried & raised as babies now when they became grown up men beat me by orders from the woman who calls herself my mother (The woman I took all the hits aimed at her instead of her, worked more than one job to help feed her kids, & worked also inside the home) and by orders of another spoiled rich girl in the family.

I’ve a bachelor in ‘Mass Communication’, was doing a master’s in ‘International Relations’, speak three languages fluently, write fiction/non fiction, poetry, and even recently started writing ‘Academic Teaching Materials’, posted them too on ‘SlideShare’. You can find my work via the following sites:

https://samiahassanahmed.wordpress.com/

https://www.facebook.com/Author.Great.Eve23/

http://independent.academia.edu/SamiaHassanAhmed

Why Are Men Becoming More Interested in The Fight Against FGM?

Hi Pals:
Here’s a link to a draft am working on, those of you on ‘Academia.edu‘ may I have your feedback.

Thanks.

 

 

https://www.academia.edu/30917563/Why_Are_Men_Becoming_More_Interested_in_The_Fight_Against_FGM_By_Samia_Hassan