Love yourself enough to walk away from everything that’s ugly, undermines you, & decreases your own self worth, happiness & self respect.
If someone doesn’t appreciate what you bring to table, fails you and makes you doubt your self-worth leave them, there’re 8 billion human beings on this planet.
It’s about your interests, your vision -mission in life & your goals and who helps you realize them & shares your set of values, we’re on this planet not forever so don’t waste your precious life & time with & around the wrong people.
Those who have chosen another path, see things in a different manner, if it’s not unethical shouldn’t be labelled as ‘Self Hating’.
During a discussion on air a black scholar Michael Eric Dyson described another black woman Brunell Donald Kyei ‘Self Hating’ , maybe instead of labelling others you better make corrections via a civilized discussion. & it’s offensive being mean to women.
Nom Chomsky is often also described as a ‘Self Hating Jew’, strange isn’t it? Because of his different views.
Every black woman who have chosen to marry from another race or love a white man is also described as ‘Self Hating’ who sold themselves!(Janet Jackson, Serena Williams, Rihanna, & the rest), we have followed the suffering of Rihanna with Chris Brown, so if a white man is going to offer her the kind of love she’s seeking & deserves why make labels for her? If black men made her suffer or any other fellow, why deny her a relationship where she’s appreciated?
Look at the suffering of Tina Turner, on top of her game & her husband didn’t value her, so staying in such crabby relationships is okay, but knowing your own worth & searching for a better alternative/love, & a more satisfying relationship is a crime?!
Those who fall to appreciate people & value them are the ‘Self Hating’ fellows! They’re psychopaths that you should avoid at all costs.