Paying Attention!

Whatever you believe in, don’t underestimate signals, signs, whispers, and messages sent and delivered to you by the universe!

Someone said that lately they’re just so attached to their beds and can’t get enough of sleep, and all their day is spent in sleeping!

Sleep is great, and if you find yourself in sleep cycles drifting into sleep often, listen to your body and the alarm and warning system God installed in you. That system is notifying you to take care of it, take care of yourself, body and treat it with respect, sacredness and the holiness it deserves.

If you fail to give your body the rest that it desperately seeks, your body without warning will make you pay for neglecting the warnings it sent your way, and it will pick a day against your will for resting!

So be mindful and observe, and pay attention to the universe’s signals, signs, whispers, and messages sent and delivered to you.

جنة ام جهنم؟

لما بتدخل جامعة،

تشترى سيارة، جزمة، عطر، و لما تقدم على وظيفة، انت ايه الحاصل و المنتوج، و الغاية و المراد من ذلك؟!

هل انت بتعمل كل الحاجات ديه بارادتك الحرة، ام انت مغصوب و مجبر؟

ماذا عن اهم اختيار فى حياتك؟!

هل تقدم عليه و عينيك معصوبة و الدولة و الجميع يصوب فوهة بندقية الى جبهتك مجبرين اياك على الزواج؟!

ربما تصل الى قناعة مفاداها الى ان جميع المتزوجين مجبورين على شريك حياتهم، لا احد خصوصا النساء فى تلك العلاقات حبا و لا يبتغى محصلة نافعة دنيا و اخرة من هذه العلاقة المسماة زواج.

هذا القشرة تملاء راسه،

هذا قميصه متسخ،

هذا اصيب بانيميا حادة،

هذا لا يمكن الاقتراب منه بسبب الروائح

و هذه ما حتى وجدت وقت تغسل وجهها او حتى تمشط شعرها

تعمل من الفجر حتى منتصف الليل و لا تجد وقت حتى تغسل قدميها قبل النوم،

و اخر يتهندم و فى الشات طوال النهار يبحث عن ضحية جديدة بعد ان خرب بيت زوجته الاولى

انت ترتبط كى تؤسس اسرة جميلة، منتجة و سليمة خالية من الامراض و الافات تضيف الى الامة و العالم حتى يصبح مكان افضل!

لا تتعلل بخلو البيت من الحب و ان المدام مهملة، انت تقول انك مرهق و ترمى نفسك على الكنبةجثة هامدة لا حراك فيها الا لعضوان الفم لتاكل ما لذ و طاب من طبيخ الزوجة التى تعمل من الفجر لمنتصف الليل

ثم العضو الثانى الذى فيه حركة مطالبا بحقه هو العضو الذكرى!

بعد 8 ساعات فقط من العمل خارج البيت، ماذا عن تلك التى تعمل 24 ساعة لسنوات؟!

الله جل فى علاه سبحانه و تعالى يقول ( ارحموا من فى الارض يرحمكم من فى السماء)

ايها المتزوجون رفقا ببعض، ارحموا بعض يرعاكم الله،

الرسول صلى الله عليه و سلم القدوة الحسنة و الرحمة المهداة للعالمين كان خادما لاهل بيته الكرام و زوجاته، و هو يقود امة باكملها و يعلمهم ما يصلح دنياهم و اخرتهم كان فى خدمة ال بيته و زوجاته،

هات خادمة تريح زوجتك حتى تتفرغ لك و للاولاد،

اذهب و اسال زوجتك، اساعدك ازاى؟

و انت ايتها الزوجة، هذا الزوج الذى لا يرى قشرة راسه، او قميصه المتسخ، الكعب المتشقق، الرائحة الغريبة، اليس زوجك ابو اولادك الا يتحمل الاهانات و البهدلة لك و لاودك، لقد اخذ الله من كليكما ميثاقا غليظا، ان تكونا جنة لاحدكما الاخر، و لكن ان انقلبت العلاقة بينكما الى عدواة و جنهم، فان لم يكن هنالك مجال لاصلاح، فتسريح باحسان، و ان تتفرقا يغنى الله كل طرف،

لان لا داعى للعلاقات انسانية لا تجعلنا احسن و تؤدى لظلم الطرفين، او ظلمهما احدهما للاخر، اما حياة مع بعضكما كجنة، او يروح كل طرف فى حال سبيله

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Life Lessons from Shawshank Redemption 2-3

Andy Dufresne:

‘Yeah. The funny thing is – on the outside, I was an honest man, straight as an arrow. I had to come to prison to be a crook.’

This line from the movie summarizes many of the great misfortunes that billions encounter on a daily basis on every trajectory and area that might be, the university failed people, the political system failed, health, education, religious, justice, security, marriage and every other institution have just failed the people that looked up to them, had so much hopes in them and trusted so much in them!

Andy in the movie was accused and charged on a crime he never committed, and the institution he was sent to that was aimed to rehabilitate him and make out of him a more good citizen that never takes the wrong path again, is actually doing the opposite of that; it uses his talents and skills for criminal purposes, and what he encounters inside the prison is beyond agonizing!

There is a tale about intimates that escape prison, and as a means to remedy this catastrophe from the perspective of officers they arrest some innocent citizens to cover up the matter so that they receive punishment for the escape of prisoners under their watch!

Beside the USA army being the biggest institution where females are raped, the USA prison system is the second largest place were females are raped!

In 2013 in the USA army there were an estimated 26,000 incidents of rape or assault!

In the USA prison system the numbers there too are horrifying – Bureau of Justice Statistics, states that around 80,000 women and men a year get sexually abused! This happens in the USA that labels itself as the greatest nation on earth on every level, try to imagine what occurs in NO MANS LAND! HORRFYING!

I came across a quote one time and the replies that just confirmed it were bewildering, the quote says:

‘With no education you will rob just a few cents, with education you will seize/rob a whole bank/factory!’

Isn’t that 100% true about the whole financial system with all its crises that led people into unprecedented losses and poverty, and continues rewarding the men in the finest suits for robbing everyone with bonuses equivalent to the salaries of millions! Its like the system is congratulating them for the crimes they have committed against billions, while millions of innocent people are locked in prisons for crimes they have never committed!

Misusing faith and your position of power for evil:

I believe in two things. Discipline and the Bible. Here you’ll receive both. Put your trust in the Lord.’

That is a quote by Norton the prison head in the movie, which is a big hoax! Norton is the last person in the whole prison to be talking about faith or discipline!

When Andy in the movie arrives at the prison Warden Norton hands him a bible which he uses for manipulation, mockery and as a cover up for his wickedness! He knows the holy book verses by heart, and even in one of his talks with Andy he asks him for his favourite quote, and Warden states his favourite!

Warden Norton, is every criminal in a position of power who rose to power through deception, networks, connections and because of other bigger fishes who profit off his crimes!

Life Lessons from Shawshank Redemption 1

At this age couple of months ago I watched Shawshank Redemption , I don’t know what compelled me to watch it, but I did & I had an array of mixed feelings & felt it bears much resemblance to many things we may encounter in life, here will be sharing some thoughts on thoughts that bubbled in my head after I’s done with the movie.

Brooks the old man in the movie was used to his chains, the prison walls and saw no other life outside the walls of the prison, he wanted to commit another crime so that he stays there, and when given a second chance to start and resume life as a free man he couldn’t get by.

He behaved as a fish that was taken outside of its natural habitat and was forced to live in an artificial settings!

For him life was the prison, outside the prison was a death sentence to him, a baggage he couldn’t handle or wasn’t equipped to deal with!

A line from the movie goes on like this:

‘These walls are funny. First you hate them, then you get used to them. Enough time passes, you get so you depend on them. That’s institutionalized.’

Reminds you of anything?!

A wife that bears unbearable abusive husband that if justice was functioning properly should have been spending his life in a prison and not among innocent people whom he could damage severely to the point that they become unable to repair from such evilness, harm and abuse!

A place that should have been the safest place on earth, and through deception, networks, connections, power and propaganda is believed to be heaven on earth but is actually HELL ON EARTH!

It reminds me of a theory I watched online ‘Boiling Frog’, it’s about a frog put in a pot that is placed on stove, and the temperatures keep raising but the frog never gives a damn and keeps adopting to each changing temperature till it eventually dies!

This is the live of billions of people around the world they have became accustomed to ugliness, oppression, humiliation, exploitation and many other evilness and their sense of dignity and honor and that they are God’s most scared being had been stolen from them, they are like Brooks in the movie Shawshank Redemption, what constitutes a good life is out of their minds, they have never seen what a good life is like, and what is out of sight is out of the mind as the saying goes by!

To be cont….

The Mightiest Currency!

The mightiest currency ain’t what you think it is?!

Look at the world around you and the evidence will hit you mightier than a lightning strike!

THE MIGHTIEST CURRENCY WAS, IS & WILL FOREVER REMAIN AS IT HAD BEEN THROUGHOUT HISTORY;

Do you want to know?!

Ladies & gentlemen wait no further more,

The MIGHTIEST CURRENCY of the world is;

IDEAS!!!

Ideas are the currency of the future. Kevin Roberts

Not only the future but all times! 

My Wish For You!

No one can promise you that your path or journey in this life will be like a straight line, you will come across lots of deadlocks, some will try to steal your dreams from you, others will cast stones at you, and it is up to you to be buried by those stones or use them to raise higher in life, you are a sacred being you are not beneath anyone, and you are a magnificent being, God when he created you broke the mould, nobody will come to this life that resembles you, at the same time don’t let that get into your head and assume you are above everyone and deprive others of their humanity, rights and dignity.

As you go your way in life to forge for yourself your ideal life be equipped with those three things and that is my wish for you:

A wishbone, backbone and a funny bone.

A wishbone: Your dreams are your assets, you were given them for a reason, those who are labelled as ‘Yes People’ who go with the tide and flow and live according to the wishes of others will impose their limitations on you, and demand of you to be realistic, because they live in nightmares they failed to change and accept them as reality, so tell them the following : Not my monkey, not my circus! Develop a wishbone and fight for your dreams.

Backbone: To not accept the ‘BS’ of losers, not be drawn to their circus and the dwarfed existence they have settled for, if you don’t standup for yourself, you will become their doormat and they will walk over you. Learn to say ‘No’ often, say ‘No’ to anything that doesn’t feel right after consulting with your heart and conscience. Have a backbone to walk alone in your own path.

Funny bone: To see the funny or bright side of anything even if it appears gloomy, this trait will cushion you against feeling offended by your haters, naysayers and those who want to distract you, and never underestimate the power of laugh or smile in many life’s battles it worked wonders!

Paying It Forward!

I don’t know of a great person who had an easy life, most of the greatest people on earth hadn’t been born with ‘A Golden Spoon’ in their mouths!

Behind majority of great people we come across in life and read about is a long path of a lot of tears, betrayal and heartache!

Anthony Robbins the greatest coach of all times had one of the most troubling lives as a child and growing up, this life of hardships led him to path into inventing ways to make lives of millions better!

Growing up he was met like most families with a dilemma of ‘Food Scarcity’ and on one of USA’s important events his family was out of food, and a stranger showed up at their door with a basket filled with all sorts of food, his dad made a scene and refused to accept the basket, but the act of kindness didn’t go unnoticed by young Anthony Robbins, he promised to do the same for other people facing hardships one day.

As days went by his mission to feed the poor grew into a movement that grows bigger and bigger, to this day his initiative has fed millions of people.

So never underestimate the good you can do, if you put your mind into something good that benefits humanity do have faith that it will happen.

If the tides turn in your favour one day, you owe it to humanity to lend them a hand and be there for others.

Who Needs You the Most?

He hooked you with his lies

Surrounded you with a web of insecurities

To become captive to his control

He lies about every word you share with him

to make you question your sanity

& keep you depending on him

He preys on your innocence & vulnerability

Claiming nobody will love you like him

It’s not love what you share

You are his victim whom he enjoys torturing because he is a sadistic pig

His likes created the Holocaust, katrina aftermath, the fall of Baghdad, Rome, Greece, famine, wars, mass human trafficking, widowed women, orphan children, unemployed youth, the addicts in the alley, the homeless, & kill millions everyday, they are those whom sold Eden & civilizations

He doesn’t need you

Your dreams

Your tomorrow

Your now

Needs You

What he needs is a rahab center

A mental asylum

An Alcatraz

Any place but you

Focus on you, because it is who needs you the most

The Art of Marriage

The art of marriage isn’t so hard to master!

Our grand parents and older generations had mastered it, and were able to stay in loving, strong and stable relationships that spanned over decades!

They didn’t have much of the ease that this generations have access to, their lives were so simple, homes small but they had lives larger than life, they built cities that is the envy of all, fought wars and have won it that today’s generations with all the technology and machine advances they have are unable to win!(With all the advances in equipment that the most advance militaries have access to now but something is not right in their psyche, mind and will their foe had defeated them emotionally, spiritually, psychology and mentally and they are already defeated even before they have stepped a foot in the battlefield!), the advanced tank and machine will not help a person that is not right emotionally, spiritually, psychology and mentally!

There were substance and meaning in the lives of older generations, its true our generation is facing great inequalities, injustices and inhumanity but did our lives become like ‘The Fast Foods’ that they serve us; it will ease your hunger for a couple of hours but on the long run it will take its toll on you on every level and you will be robbed of all of the precious things!

Generations that puts their parents and grand parents at elderly care centers will not have lasting, meaningful and happy lives!(Take Japan for example with all the ease in life and advances they have they suffer from a wide range of troubles and elders re treated harshly and beg their kids to just come visit them at the elderly care centers just once every months!(How can we do this to our own and expect the Lord Almighty to be in our aid?!)

This is ‘The Age of Mass Divorce’, in every country Muslim and non-Muslim they suffer from high divorce rates, the whole world is at courts to settle divorce disputes! Why is this generation that have things that were not available for older generation unable to build and keep a family? Yet the generations before them who had fewer things were better than them in that?

In the theory of evolution, there is this theory that states:

‘Males will select younger females, and females will select males with resources.’

I think it’s true for males, because they are looking for a female they can dominate, cancel her identity, dictate for her her aspirations and how she should think and behave, but I totally disagree that women’s criteria for selecting a mate is based on his access and possession of resources, or how will you explain cases like the following :

-Princess Diana of Wales

-Princess Haya of Jordan

-Melinda Gates

-MacKenzie Scott Jeff Bezos wife

-Cécilia Attias who left former French president Sarkozy (All those women left the most wealthy and powerful men in the world)

Women aren’t after men’s wealth, they have to come with a better argument! And if you think your money will keep a free woman hostage to you as you are a ‘Boko Haram leader’ you are dead wrong!

Men’s problems is they behave like kids; they think a woman is a toy that should be added to the arsenal of their possessions that they brag about to the other boy kids of the clubs they affiliate with!

And when a problem arises in their marriages which is a normal thing in all healthy relationships, they think the remedy is another woman or an affair! No, fix your problems, don’t add more problems and create new ones!

And perhaps what men need is not a new woman but ‘A New Version of themselves’, like all the requests that we get on our technological devices; ALL YOU NEED IS AN UPDATE! They say change how you see things, and the things you complaint about will change, that constant voice in your head that says something is wrong with your wife IS DEVILS VOICE! Devil is your enemy and he wants to dismantle your beautiful family, so as a strong warrior don’t give the enemy what he desires, instead fight the devil and evil thoughts in your head!

Men need to appreciate the women in their lives and honor them, love the apple in your hand because if you don’t change for the better, thank God for that woman in your life who carries your name, bared your children, if you don’t appreciate that Allah had multiplied you from one person to many, one day when its too late and all is gone you will realize that you were an ungrateful fool, and that instead of searching for other apples on other trees, you should have taken care of the apple you already had in your hands and failed to appreciate!

Is the ‘Immigration Experiment’ failing like the ‘American Experiment’?!


A few contaminated drops in an ocean doesn’t mean the whole ocean had been contaminated , few bad apples doesn’t mean the whole basket had went spoiled! What is the % of immigrants that are causing trouble in the countries that hosts them?! 000000000.1%?!

What about those who come from those societies that may endanger all?! What is their %?!

How about Oklahoma City bombing, daily shooting in USA, Norway and New Zealand extremists who killed dozens, were they immigrants?!

An immigrant oath, and daily acts of goodness isn’t enough evidence that they indeed considers the nation that hosts them as their home, even speaking the accent, wearing same cloth or eating as everyone won’t elevate you to the status of those who consider you as an outsider!

Just as being a mom is the toughest occupation on earth, being an immigrant too is so tough and a struggle!

The other is required to prove every second of their life that they are as good as those who had accepted to host them!

It’s true if properly invested in they could become the future Einstein’s, Job’s, Dickens, Shakespeare, Henrik Ibsen or any other great scientist, inventor and writer. The other sometimes even have to play that they are dumb because as Robert Greene says ‘Make Sure You Never Outshine the Master’! The master may desire you to grow, but in his book that has a limit!

The live of an immigrant is daily struggle for the most basic of all rights ‘Humanity, dignity, equality, being worthy of love & protection’, you walk little slower than everyone else and you make sure to be vigilant or else your tiniest of mistake will stain a whole religion or race, and that nothing of an error will result in painting all with the same brush!

Paying a closer look into every society that hosts immigrants and threatens to deport them because of claims that they aren’t compatible with their ideals and way of life is just a lie, all those nations members actually can’t stand one another, are divided into groups, sects and ideologies that can barely stand looking into each others face, they even call their own ‘A BASKET OF DEPOLRABLES’! How can they even coexist, tolerate the other who doesn’t even share their race, color or religion?!

The folks of those nations collide violently against each other every moment of the day right in front of the eyes of billions of the world’s citizens, they don’t settle their difference in a civilized manner like they love to preach us when they come to install their ideologies and ways of lives in other countries, they aren’t even enlighted and have indeed declined into being what they label other nations with ‘Banana Republic’!

No country is an island, the age of internet that made the world a tiny village proves that if we don’t rise together and cooperate and learn to coexist with each other peacefully will go extinct like the dinosaurs! The West that loves like the Sun the concept that all revolves around it, have seen through China and Russia that is not the case with every one, and one day many will join that pursuit, not every nation wants to be a follower! Why do powerful nations want some to walk behind them and others even be further behind? Can’t we all walk peacefully together beside one another?!

The West is undergoing decline in birth rates, with many of its population that will become elders, so who will make the wheel of innovation, production, research, economy and everything turning?! Are they going to clone people like the ‘Dolly Lamb’?!

COVID19 had made the Western nations in particular go into great economic decline far worse than what they have been suffering from before COVID19 had started, so how gonna they bounce back from its severe and catastrophic impacts in terms of lives, economy lost and major other losses?!

To be Cont……